

Brain
Stories

Brain
Stories

Brain
Stories

Brain
Stories

Brain
Stories
Emotions shouldn't scare us, they should inform us
Emotions shouldn't scare us, they should inform us
'You manage tasks.
People are led.'

'You manage tasks.
People are led.'

Mindset Primer
How expecting hard work shapes a growth mindset ...
and why it is can be better to develop talent rather than look
for heroes
Mindset Primer
How expecting hard work shapes a growth mindset ...
and why it is can be better to develop talent rather than look
for heroes
Rear Admiral
Grace Murray Hopper,
US Navy
Led team that invented
COBAL computer language
Rear Admiral
Grace Murray Hopper,
US Navy
Led team that invented
COBAL computer language
Remove Barriers
Lead People;
Manage Work.
Most hurdles fall into one of three buckets: Process. People. Knowledge.
A leader's job is to clear the way for excellent performance
Whatever gets in the way of people contributing their best efforts is a barrier leaders need to be able to identify and work with employees to remove. Often it is knowledge – information or technical skills the employee lacks and must either seek out, learn or have access to.
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Processes can be problematic because "we've always done it this way,"
or because it requires knowing the difference between complex – the
natural state of some systems; and complicated – what humans do that
make things more difficult than need be.
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In the end, however, many barriers are self-imposed, especially
our approach to – and our attempts to avoid – emotions.
Emotions such as motivation, passion and competition are the fuel that drives
organizations. But our institutions are built on the mistaken belief that
emotions should be checked at the door, that work is someplace where
reason and logic rein - that we are capable of Thinking first, then Act on the
thought and then cut off our feelings.
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In fact, our brains are wired to Feel, Act & Think:
If it is run by a human, it runs on feelings.
Brain-savvy leaders aren't intimidated by emotions; instead they understand
them as data. That means treating them as information without judgment.
People can be sad that someone succeeded or happy that someone failed.
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By treating emotions as data necessary, but not sufficient, to make good
decisions, you both elevate the importance of emotions and make them
exceedingly more manageable and less threatening.​
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This leads us to a vital lesson about the role emotions play in decisions:
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You do not reason people out of what
they did not reason themselves into
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This proverb is hundreds of years old, yet captures three neuroscience truths:
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• If we make decisions driven predominantly by emotions, we are not likely to swayed by "reason."
• Reason is not a higher form of thought; the fact is you can reason someone into a bad decision.
• Once we make a decision, our biases – confirmation, anchor, story – make it difficult for us to change our minds.
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In its extreme form, this takes on the form of a phobia. For example, have you ever tried to talk someone out of a fear of flying? No amount of data can break the Reptilian-Limbic loop.
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What works? Experience, which is why Virgin Atlantic has a center where those afraid of flying can experience simulated take-offs and landings dozens, if not hundreds of times.
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People have to experience change in order to believe in change
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This has a huge impact on your role as a leader
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The Courage Scale​
As part of an assignment studying heart health, Dr. David Hawkins sat in hundreds of meetings at a Fortune 500 company. He noticed that certain behaviors moved things forward, while others set them back.
Hawkins developed a scale determining which emotions were contributors and which were detractors. Among his findings:
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Courage is the tipping point between behaviors that "give" to an organization and those that "take."
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Apathy is a far more serious threat than anger.
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Effective leaders learn how to interact with angry people and channel that energy into constructive action.